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my ex frequently hits me up and tells me she wants to get back together.
for the most part, i hate her.
but i still want her back.
since breaking up with her ive smashed two broads.
so i felt a tad better.
but right now women arent too appealing to me, /nh.
so fuck it do what you gotta do but dont make yourself look weak by making contact with her
or telling her you want her back.
i made that mistake one too many times and im still a fucking trainwreck.
i need a fucking beer now.
My life in a nutshell right here, even the girls arent appealing statement. /nh
I'm not one to ask for advice. but from what people have told me, give it time, give her space. break off all contact info with her, and take some time to yourself. get this girl out of your head and have some free time. like Earl said, test some waters, fuck man you've been out of the game since you were like 16. times have changed, time to catch up. and like other wise men in here have said, if its meant to be, it'll fall back into place. right now you gotta let it run its course.
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11-03-2009, 06:48 AM
keep your head up, dont do any stupid shit, go out with the boys and meet other chicks.
thats what i did, i split in june. just get ready for when you see her with other guys, thats the hardest.
i'm doing fine
Re: my life has been flipped up side down. -
11-03-2009, 01:16 PM
well thanks for all the advise. looks like i need to give her the space and do my own thing.. besides all this things are looking up. i have a great job and was told by the owner like 2 months ago that they will be making operation manager hopefully with in the next 2 years as the company continues to grow. so i will double my income to atleast 60k a year which i cant wait for. so i plan on staying wit my parents paying off my credit cards buying a new ride then looking for a spot to rent out before i get the promotion and buy another crib.
and as for the house im looking in to people renting it out. i wanted to sell it but u all know how the is going so im trying to see wats up with the whole rent out thing. my mom is also having surgery in 2 weeks and wont be working for 2 months so i will be helping my parents by tossing $600 for staying here.
and as for the tit flicks she always saw what would go on on the ontz so she wouldnt let me take flicks..lol buts she half mexican and puerto rican wit huge tit and wide hips wit a big ass. the thing im going to miss the most is smashing that every night.
Re: my life has been flipped up side down. -
11-03-2009, 03:02 PM
There will be others with those attributes my friend.
You seem like you got a level head - a good dude - nohomo.
Your young...don't sweat her.
Do your thing homey!
Originally Posted by MAR (View Original Post)
yo where do you get mouse control? I cant find it on bombing science or 4thehardway.
Re: my life has been flipped up side down. -
11-03-2009, 03:21 PM
an ex-x (2ex-es ago) just contacted me out of the blue, i still love you i miss you etc. FUCK THAT
dude you cant see it now but she did you the biggest favor of your life.
you get to start fresh over, no baggage and residual problems this time around.. as soon as your mild heart attack puppy love chest pains are over you'll be the man again. 22 is the perfect age to party like a rockstar for the next year get your head straight and then become a little more tasteful and sophisticated in choosing a new chicken wing.
think about it... your sophomore (coincidentally an apt word chosen for this situation) taste is that of a child, its corny at best. what are kind of stupid bullshit were you into in HS? now you can make the next decision as a man and with confidence not circumstance.
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11-03-2009, 04:38 PM
Honestly...I'm hugely cynical when it comes to the high school sweetheart scenario. You got people thinking they've seen it all when in reality they haven't even tested the water.
One of my best friends is in some disgustingly long relationship that started early in high school. I know if he marries this girl they're both gonna be miserable about 2 years after the rings are on. You can't base your life around one relationship, when you're young you should be out meeting girls and smashing your way across the proverbial great plains. Even if you're not the type of dude to fuck mad girls, at least get into a couple serious relationships before you even entertain the notion of marriage. Niggas STAY playing a dangerous game when they propose at 20.
This was more of a personal rant, seeing as I can't really apply it to you and your girl, illstate. I don't know all the intricacies. Even so, get out there man. Do you. As far as people on here go you always seemed like a decent guy, so get back in the saddle and good luck.
Things go better with Coke! Life is much more fun when you're refreshed...and Coke refreshes you best!
Re: my life has been flipped up side down. -
11-03-2009, 04:53 PM
i got out of a 3 and a half year relationship a year ago and i'm still an emo little bitch about it. you're young. keep friends around at all times. also, try to get out of your parents spot. move in with a friend. it'll help you get your mind off shit and it'll be nice to have someone around that's there for you to unload your shit on. keep your head up.
Your girl is a typical smut and wants to fuck other dudes.
Being freinds with her will not only make you look like an even bigger chump than she apparently already sees you, but it'll also open you up to seeing her with other dudes.
Nomatter how much you lie to yourself, you're NOT down with seeing her with other dudes.
i got out of a 3 and a half year relationship a year ago and i'm still an emo little bitch about it. you're young. keep friends around at all times. also, try to get out of your parents spot. move in with a friend. it'll help you get your mind off shit and it'll be nice to have someone around that's there for you to unload your shit on. keep your head up.